è Feeling frustrated with your
job, people, or life in general? Don't
go over the edge -- write about it! Turn your frustrations
into
helpful articles, or deal with them in fiction, even if it means
saying to people (characters) what you REALLY want to say.
Don't
bottle it up -- turn it into a creation.
è Get a writing buddy!
Are you writing a book? You wouldn't believe
the difference a writing buddy can make. In just two short
days of
having a writing buddy, I have become more enthused about my book
than ever. Why? I think it is because I have someone
to talk to
about what is going on rather than battling it on my own.
A writing
buddy is perfect for exchanging ideas, brainstorming, and just
taking
a break. Look for one - you won't regret it.
è Don't just keep talking about
writing -- do it! Take advantage of
every second. I flubbed the other day. I took three
children to the
dentist's office. There is a rule there that kiddos go back
without
parents because parents tend to get in the way. I'm cool
with that.
But guess what I did. I went without pen and paper.
I was there for
TWO hours! For two hours I could have written SOMETHING.
Instead, I
read all about what's up with Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman, and
how
rude fashion people can be in Hollywood. So productive.
So next
time you find yourself in a position where you will be waiting,
don't
be an Angela -- take your paper and pen and get some real work
done.
è I cut out and keep the current
mastheads of favorite magazines in a file folder. This way,
after informing myself about a publication in Writers' Market,
I can double check the information from their own masthead from
my file before sending queries or submissions.
è The next time you claim you
don't have enough time to write 100 words
on your book or an article, look at the last e-mail you sent.
If you
participate in group discussions, take a look at how many e-mails
a
day you write. Now, cut one of those out and spend that
time writing
instead -- real writing!
è Do you receive the newspaper?
If so, do as I do when searching for
ideas for fiction. Grab the paper, scissors, a notebook
and pen and set to cutting all the stories, even classifieds,
that spark your interest. If any immediately jump out at
you with possible story lines, jot those ideas down and paperclip
both together.
Only write non-fiction? This same idea works by looking
at what the
world happens to be interested in at the moment. Health
concerns,
too much television, etc ... All new ideas can be found simply
by
cutting news from newspapers.
Your children can help you! Tell them what you are looking
for and
have them go at it. You never know what else they may cut
out that
you might not have thought of.
è Unplug the Internet.
Try writing for a whole day without the
Internet hooked up. When trying to write while also online,
the
Internet calls softly every time. But if you can totally
unplug and
resist the urge to hook up, you will find yourself writing a lot
more
than usual.
Do you have a laptop? Head outside and away from all phone
plugs.
Write, write, write.
No laptop? Pen and paper still work just fine, and there's
NO way
you can connect to the Internet with those.
Want to write with pen and paper but the computer keeps calling
you?
Set it up to do maintenance like defragging so that you can't
use it.
è Need a deadline? Enter
a contest! Find one that is either free or with a small
entry fee and check the deadline date. If it's coming up
real soon, enter it. The sooner the deadline, the better
chance that you will find that free time you need to write a story
to enter. Then, even if you don't win, you have a new article
or story already ready for you to market. Not winning a
contest doesn't mean your work isn't any good. Send it on
out into the world and seek
publication. Many writers have reported how contests inspired
an article that they were later able to sell even though they did
not win the contest. Try one today!
è Take all the magazines you
have saved in a pile and set them up at a work- station for your
children. Give them safety scissors, glue sticks and construction
paper and challenge them to write a whole story from pictures and
words. While they are working, write. When they finish,
give them a reward for letting you work. If it's food, that
will buy you a few more minutes for writing.
è With summer vacation coming
up and many of you with children who will be home for a few months,
begin to make plans now for the best effective schedule you can
to keep writing. If you normally write during the time your
children are in school, start looking into activities that can
occupy your children's time while you try to get some of your
work done. Also, think about summer programs they may enjoy
joining that will still give you an hour or two each day to write,
even if you have to do so on paper with a pen. Perhaps you
will want to set their bedtimes so that you can get some writing
in before your own bedtime. Whatever the case, summer is
fast approaching in many parts of the world and you want to make
sure you are prepared for it now.
è Create your own deadlines.
It is proven that many writers write best if they
know they have a deadline. By creating your own deadlines,
you don't just
mark it on the calendar - you let the world know about it.
You tell your
friends, family and anyone who will listen that you have a deadline
and it
must be met. When you only create one for yourself, you
are bound to ignore
it. But by telling others, you are more inclined to follow
through, whether
you have children demanding you or not.
On a large calendar that can be seen by your whole family, wrote
in bold, red
letters DEADLINE and make sure you stick to it. When you
make it, thank your family for their cooperation and mark it off.
Not only will they see you are
serious, but they will feel good to know they were a part of your
success.
Become a writing buddy with another writer and make weekly goal
lists,
including at least one deadline. This way, your buddy can
ask you about it enough to where you would feel bad making excuses.
è Remember when we learned in school about words that sound
alike but are spelled differently? There were words like
THERE and THEIR, and even
THEY'RE. It got confusing. But we learned it because
we had to. Well, it's
time to go back to school. It seems as time went on, many
of us forgot which
words to use when. Many writers are using YOUR when they
should have used YOU'RE. Myself, I was recently called on
the words PEAK and PEEK. Sound the same, but both are spelled
differently and mean two different things. And when it comes
to impressing an editor, you want to make sure YOU are using the
correct words. Editors aren't looking for what you MEANT
to say; they want to see that you KNOW what to write. So
take some time this week to go over all the words you have in
written in doubt. I bet there is one or two that you misuse
without even realizing it. PEAK was my word. What's
yours?
è Return to your roots. Not
your family roots but your writing roots. When you first began
writing, you probably used paper and pen/pencil. Then you advanced
on to a computer (perhaps after a stop at a typewriter like myself).
Now you can't even remember how to compose on paper. It's time
to return to that. Break it all out (borrow some from the kids)
and find a cozy place to relax. Let your mind flow and see where
your hand takes you. You may discover a poet within that you never
knew was there, or a fiction writer who previously only wrote
non. The possibilities are endless. Re-discover your inner writing
self today!
è Been thinking about writing
your memoirs? Since your life story involves your children, why
not gather together for a writing session. Children can spend
time with you and write their own memories while you work on your
own. Not only will you successfully complete your work sooner
(since the children hopefully will not be bothering you), but
also your children have helped put together something that can
forever be a part of the family.
è Take all of those magazines
you bought to read up on what certain publications want and give
them to the kids with safety scissors, construction paper and
glue. With everyone at the same table, tell them to cut out pictures
to tell a story with. Meanwhile, you get to write at the same
time they are constructing masterpieces. When everyone is finished,
share all of your stories, yours included.